What the World is Coming To

I’m going to break from the traditional topic of my blog (traveling) and talk about something that hits a lot closer to home this time. It’s been weighing on my heart lately and this is best way I have to get my thoughts out of my head and put to paper. Well, virtual paper, anyway.

As more and more bad news rains down on us, I keep hearing people ask, “what is the world coming to?” We just made it through a nasty and divisive election. I’m still seeing Facebook posts from my friends who are mad about the outcome and aren’t ready to move on. We’re feeling more divided than ever. Every day, we hear about the looming fiscal cliff and we’re the unwitting Thelma and Louise all packed in the convertible, zooming toward the precipice. Additionally, we have the conspiracy theorists saying that the government is out to get us, making us paranoid. I haven’t even mentioned the upcoming Mayan doom, asteroids hurtling toward the Earth, or North Korea’s nukes yet! Is it any wonder that we are feeling that the world has gone mad?

Earlier this week, we heard the horrors of the mall shooting in Oregon. Thankfully, the shooter’s gun jammed and only two were killed, plus the shooter. But still, two families must spend this holiday season and every one from now one without their loved ones. Not to mention the guilt and pain the shooter’s family must be feeling. As I write this, specifics are still coming in about the shooting at an elementary school in Connecticut. Details are still sketchy but it is certain that dozens of innocent people lost their lives, among them a classroom full of kindergartners.

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I watched a video on my friend Amy King’s Facebook page that has haunted me for days. It showed a dog that had been hit by a car being dragged to safety by another dog, across several lanes of traffic. The awesome little guy risked his life to save his furry friend! So heartwarming! I had seen that video before but that wasn’t the haunting part. It was juxtaposed with another video from another country. This video showed a little girl that was being run over by a car. She lays in the street. Others drive by, literally step around her, drive around her, but no one helps. Finally, someone comes and moves her out of the street but does not give her medical attention. They just move her off to the side and leave her lying there. Finally, after what seems like an eternity, someone comes and carries her away. The video says that she was 2 years old and died from her injuries.

I’d like to dismiss this and think that something like this would never happen here. But, would it? We’ve become a society that seems to kill each other so freely. Recently, one man pushed another onto subway tracks and he died when the train hit him moments later. No one helped. Where do we draw the line? How can we fix it? When will it stop? I don’t pretend to have all of the answers and I would love any and all constructive comments here. But I have a few thoughts.

First, I own guns so I’m not going to get into a debate about them. But, it does seem that our society much too readily skips past all of the options available to resolve our differences and goes straight to “I’ll kill ‘em!” Whatever happened to talking, arm wrestling, arguing, slapping, dance offs, drum battles, rock/paper/scissors, or even a fist fight? Heck, taze them if you must. But, do we really have to resort to such a permanent solution as death to solve such a temporary problem as a dispute? It just seems like we don’t value human life anymore. Instead, I wish that we would use deadly force as an absolute last resort, only when all other avenues have been exhausted. There are so many other ways to solve differences rather than killing someone.

Second, we’re so angry all the time. Maybe we need more mandatory yoga classes in every community. I saw friendships end during this past election and some barely survive the college football season simply because we were rooting for different sides. Can we no longer allow people to have an opinion that differs from ours? I’m all for being passionate about your beliefs but when you get to the point that you dislike people simply because they don’t agree with you, I think you should take a step back. Our national media and talk show hosts who get paid millions to fuel your fire only make this worse. They blow stories out of proportion, spin things to sensationalize, and rake in the ratings all to raise your blood pressure. Meanwhile, you’re left feeling angry, paranoid, and very much feeling the “us vs. them” mentality that they perpetuate. But, the “them” is your fellow man, living in your community, and maybe even under your roof. Be passionate! But when you approach anger, nastiness, hatred, or bitterness it’s probably a good idea to examine why you’re feeling that way and step away from the situation that is making your blood boil. Change what you can but fuming about things beyond your control is fruitless and harmful to your well-being.

I am a Christian and every time something tragic happens, I just feel that the world needs God. Our pastor, Mark Foster at Acts 2 United Methodist Church in Edmond, taught us a sermon recently about the number of times in the gospels that Jesus says “Be Not Afraid.” I just kept thinking during that sermon that so many people would be comforted by that.   I’m not a preacher and I’m not going to become one now (I’ll leave that to the experts) but I do believe that if we put our faith in God instead of man, we will feel a lot more secure.

So, how do we fix it? Well, we can start by using Jesus as an example. He accepted others (even sinners-aren’t we all?) and treated people with kindness, love, and compassion. It’s really simple-be nice to one another. “Do unto others as you would have them do to you” Luke 6:31. I mean, how simple is that? But, how badly do we mess it up?  Why can’t we live it? If you aren’t a Christian (you’re welcome to come to church with me!) some form of this Golden Rule can be found in basically every religion and society since the beginning of time. Even though it is the easiest concept to grasp, we just can’t seem to stick to it. If you don’t agree with someone’s lifestyle, condemning them isn’t the answer. Lucky for us, judging is God’s job so you are relieved of duty. I believe that you can lead many more people to Christ through love than through finger pointing and scare tactics. By the way, the Golden Rule does not give you license to be crappy to people that are mean to you. It tells us to treat people how we want to be treated.

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Each and every one of us can make an effort to change society today. We ARE society. I don’t think any of my friends reading this are going to snap and go on a rampage next week but you never know what is going on inside those you work with, those in your family, that woman you pass in the grocery store, or that man you refuse to let on the ramp in traffic tonight.  You don’t know what a smile, a kind word, or a prayer can mean for someone, or the difference you can make in someone’s life. It may seem like a small thing but if we had more compassion for our fellow humans, I think it would go a long way toward solving this blackness that we seem to have hanging over us. Let’s all work to treat each other with more kindness, caring, good-will, and love. I know I sound like an idealist but that’s OK. I’m not ready to give up on this world just yet. We’re lost-yes. But we can be found with some help from above and by caring about each other.

I’d love to hear from you. Other than shipping all of the mean people off to their own plat of land in Siberia, what do you think would make this world a better place?

“You may say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one. I hope someday you’ll join us and the world will live as one.”~John Lennon

Happy trails,

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10 Responses to What the World is Coming To

  1. Natasha Shipley says:

    Well said Jennifer!! Love reading what you have to say!

  2. Misty says:

    I was typing these same words out on Facebook but I deleted it because mine sounded more like rambling…you took the words out of my head and typed them in a logical order! I am angry but not at the man that did this necessarily (he is being judged by our maker…that is not my job) but at the society that allows these things to happen. We all turn a blind eye too often and become numb to our surroundings. I can’t tell you how many times I have heard “this is the day and age we live in now”. Why? Do we just accept this or do we try to change it? We’re there signs that someone saw and just said, “Oh those poor parents! But it’s none of my business”. I think as humans we have it in us to step up and ask someone, “Can I help you with that?” I just think everyone should know their neighbors, teachers, children’s friends, etc….we just need to open our eyes. Ask for help! Accept others help. Give help! Otherwise everyone is right! This IS the day and age we live in!

    • Misty, I think it’s just easier for some people to say, “Oh well” than to actually do something. But, I think even beginning with simple acts of kindness can help. Lord knows they sure can’t hurt. The truth is the we can say today that it isn’t our business but unless we do something, it will be our turn for the bad things to affect us soon enough. I half-joked about moving my family to a remote mountain cabin today but we can’t run. Instead, we have to make a stand. Thanks for reading, sharing, and commenting. I appreciate it!

  3. A great way to share what is going on in our world. We all need Jesus and we all need prayer. There are so many people are hurting in their own ways tonight. In all kinds of ways. The world is a place of hurt. Just go to the Lord in prayer for everyone hurting in their own way this evening.
    God bless the hurting people. I know I’m hurting for a loved one right now and only thing I can do is be there for this person and tell them I love them dearly and praying for them.
    God bless you Jennifer. We will continue to pray for everyone who has a great issue. God bless them all. God is so cool. Try it, pray.
    Shawna Neely

  4. sheaneece says:

    Good job! I agree wholeheartedly. I do think our society has gotten coarse (for lack of a better term) and has stopped caring for the most part. The only time people seem to care is when it directly affects their little slice of Heaven. I’m going to take your cue and smile a little more, give thanks every single time they are due and lend a hand as often as humanly possible.

    • Exactly, Shea! People only seem to care about themselves, which is a huge part of the problem. Let me know what kind of response you get to the extra smiles and helpful attitude. I bet you’ll get back far more than you give.

  5. patty c says:

    I agree with everything you said, Jennifer. And Shawna is so right: we all need Jesus and we all need prayer. This country has become so obsessed with removing all thought and knowledge of God from our daily lives. This is giving the enemy a foothold and it’s going to continue unless we repent. 2 Chronicles 7:14
    Our land won’t heal until we invite God back in. Be joyful; pay kindness forward AND backward (and sideways, too!); and pray for everyone, whether WE think they deserve it or not (yes, that includes the President).

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